Posted on May 31, 2025
For giggles this may be a recurring series. It’s been fun reflecting on my time at the University of Florida (UF) and if any of my little stories help someone at UF I’m happy. Without further ado let’s get to the giggles, the grades, and the gators…
For Giggles
I love a walk. Walking anywhere just clears the mind and helps reset whatever problems I’m having. The University of Florida campus is a really nice place for a walk with many hidden gems. I remember wandering between brick buildings finding little courtyards, hidden corners by the gym in hearing range of the pool but not sight, secret boardwalks between sections of campus and housing, and so on. I’d start at studio and just walk, every few intersections I would pick right or left. There wasn’t a time limit just walk til I’d solved my problem or at least felt better and could keep working on my school work.
My favorite walk of all time was probably my most dramatic. It was nighttime, a few hours after sunset probably, I was stressed and decided fuck it, I’m going for a walk. I started out at the Architecture building and decided to try to get to the Bat Houses and Lake Alice figuring somewhere out there I might find a little garden or secret path to walk on. It started drizzling when I had made it to Frat Row. I had changed my mind about reaching the Bath Houses and walked down Frat Row to the street over and started walking what I figured was back towards the Architecture Building. Naturally once I was out of quick access to any immediate shelter it just let loose. I was soaked in seconds. By now I was crying and laughing and just so so so done with everything. I made it to a little bus shelter and stopped for a second and just lost it. I thought how silly to hide in place when I’m already basically rain for how wet I was. So smiling and still crying some I stepped back into the rain and walked all the way back to the Architecture Building.
I took my time, admiring the tree canopy that lessened the force of the rain falling, the lights that became more frequent as I reached the heart of campus, the way all the plants seemed more vibrant and the brick color had changed. By the time I was back to the Architecture Building I was giggling and had long stopped crying. I walked into the studio and gave one of my classmates a quick run down of what was left on our structural project due the next day, promising to come back once I’d changed. Laughing to myself as they had looked at me like I was insane completely dripping in studio talking thru a project, I walked across the street to my dorm. I took a hot shower, changed into comfy clothes, and went back to studio to wrap things up with my project group.
The next day was fine. The project did well and I had a little more resolve on how to handle my little troubles. Needless to say I now enjoy weekend walks with my favorite trouble, my fiancé.
For Grades
Look up your major, or majors/minors of interest, critical course load list. This seems like the most obvious advice but I cannot stress enough how often this is overlooked. Honestly UF does a really nice job of listing every available program so it’s easy to shop. Once you click the program link it takes you to the information page. My favorite part of this page is the Model Semester Plan tab. The university basically preplans the best course to take all your classes and graduate on time with credit counts, critical courses listed, and suggested additions to course load to meet additional university requirements. I used print outs of the critical tracking to create a model semester plan for myself for a variety of minors I was interested in to make the most of my time at UF.
Once you have your plan in hand go meet your advisor! Seriously just plan out your entire time at UF – make yourself options to explore then go talk to an advisor. Let them know early on what you are trying to do. So when you get to a semester where you know you’ll be at 18+ credits they’ll sign off without question. So when you need another course because the one you wanted didn’t work they’ll have a better idea of what to guide you towards, rather than fill an emptier class.
It might seem crazy but an intense planning session on day one of your freshman year will make everything so much easier. You’ll quickly learn what you like and don’t like. Once you’ve settled on your track every semester registration is simple, and all you have to worry about is passing the classes you’re in at the time.
UF Program List: https://catalog.ufl.edu/UGRD/programs/
UF Architecture Major: https://catalog.ufl.edu/UGRD/colleges-schools/UGDCP/ARC_BDES/#modelsemesterplantext
For the Gators
You will need your UF-ID til you die. I really thought it was only relevant as a student to get into buildings and track your courses and generally access anything for students. As an alumn I have needed it more times than I thought. You want to send an official transcript to the licensure board so you can become a licensed professional in your field: you’ll need your UF-ID. You want to check on your GPA or reference something from your time as a student for your resume, oh just login to your account, oh don’t know the password anymore – just put in your UF-ID to reset. It’s that or call someone who will ask why you don’t know your UF-ID.
Now if you loose the ID card don’t panic. I managed to find my UF-ID printed on a letter my mom had from being on the Dean’s list. Chances are if you have an academic related letter it will have your ID on it. If not, just call the IT Help Desk and reset things. Then save the ID somewhere safe.
In short just keep the ID safe. Better yet, before graduating just go get a replacement ID and keep it safe. Put it with your diploma in a safe til you need it.
Your college ID is almost as important as your state and federal IDs. Keep it, and keep it safe.
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Posted on May 17, 2025
Volunteering is a give and take. Selfishly in giving your time and helping others leaves you feeling better as a person. Or at least I do.
I have volunteered most of my life. It’s just something I did, whether because school required hours, or my parents had signed the family up for something, or I just needed something else in my life that wasn’t just about me (at least entirely).
As a kid I focused on reading and teaching karate (as an assistant – let’s not think I’m some amazing karate ninja or anything…). At the University of Florida I volunteered as an ambassador showing off the school to interested students and trying to connect students, prospective or current, with the resources they needed. At the University of Pennsylvania I continued my work as an ambassador for my new college and added in some time at the Philadelphia Animal Welfare Society (PAWS). When I moved to St Augustine I didn’t volunteer anywhere.
I had plenty of other things to focus on but for some reason that just wasn’t enough. I was missing the community engagement, the feeling of helping others not just myself, and the variety that volunteering naturally brings to your life. So after a few years of nothing I started considering where to volunteer.
I decided I wanted to pick an organization that focused on people locally and that wasn’t related to anything I had studied or currently was working on. I eventually found the St Vincent de Paul Food Pantry (note they have a lovely thrift store I quite enjoy shopping at) and applied.
Food is something I take for granted. That I will have access to it always. That I can have any variety of it I want at any time. That I can eat any of it with no repercussions. It has been so humbling and rewarding to work at the food pantry.
It’s heartbreaking to realize that once a week at least 80 people are asking for help with food security. This food pantry provides boxes twice a week with additional walk up and family visits for support. So double the number, at least. Now consider that these may not be the same people week to week. Add to that who is aware of the resource. How many people really need assistance with food in my county alone?
St Vincent de Paul Food Pantry is just one of several in the county. Feeding Northeast Florida has a really nice map search feature where you can input your zip code and it will list and show you local food pantries in your area. Try the map here: https://feedingnefl.org/find-food-now/#googtrans(en|en)
An alternative to food pantries would be programs like those provided by the USDA including SNAP and WIC. Both programs provide assistance to those in need to access food and other health resources. WIC specializes in providing resources to women and infants. Honestly, before I became involved in the food pantry I hadn’t considered the range of needs or the variety of resources that might exist or need to exist. I hope that these resources will be seen for the incredible resources they are and maintained.
Whether they do or not knowing that the St Vincent de Paul food pantry exists, and many others in the county, and that I can help prepare boxes with produce, meat, and additional goodies for those in need helps. I hope that the resources listed here help those in my own county and give those not in this county something to consider and research for themselves.
The USDA has a variety of more academic resources that help give insight into the process of identifying/surveying for food insecurity as well as tips on additional ways to address food security in times of high stress. The resources vary in skimability – some are a little more academic but if you’re interested in the data collection and analysis side this is a nice place to start. Consider the Community Food Security Assessment Toolkit or Emergencies and Food Safety Page.
I have not come across too many opportunities in my work yet to address food security. However, community gardens, edible landscapes, and food forests are both wonderful ways to incorporate food security into a community. I love that these designs often hide themselves in plain sight and empower the community to be self sufficient. Between food security and native resilient landscapes I have plenty to look forward to learning about and incorporating once I’m licensed.
Even if you don’t work on food security, feed your heart and the community’s by volunteering, by giving freely what time you have to make this place a community and not just another spot on Earth.
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Posted on May 3, 2025
It has been a hot minute since I’ve written. A lot has happened. And while I want to share everything all at once that’s probably not the best way to tell all the good and bad and okay-ish news. Instead I will share a quick life update summary (still a little crazy – details to come) and then a posting schedule with some fun tittles to look forward to that tell the story better (and to keep me on track, seriously!). I am excited to be back and hope you are just as excited to read!
Life Update:
I’m engaged! The Condo layout and design is being reconsidered and still needs updates, which are in some state of progress. I am studying for licensure (2 exams passed, 1 exam pending results, 2 exams to go). Work is work – busy and exciting. I’ve found a community of wonderful people while volunteering and learning at the church. I’m reading again (and so writing again!) And, my health is much improved. I have energy I haven’t had in ages and so so so many things to do!
Schedule:
I am thinking a two week posting schedule to give me time for those sudden surprise tasks or deadlines but frequent enough that I don’t get rusty. As to topics, I need to stretch a little – I took a look at my categories and some are a touch sparse… I’ll be filling in where I can with useful information.
Some titles to look forward to include:
Feeding the Heart
Community
Giggles, Grades, and Gators
University of Florida
Renovation Pause and the Cause
Build
Condo for Two, Please
Build + Interior
Summer Sun - Let's Celebrate Some!
Community + Life
Walking Works
Continuing Education + Life
Caffeine Can't Keep You Alive Forever
Life
Some Media
Community + Life
Why the Christmas Lights!?!
Community + Design
30 and Flirting _with Too Many Ideas
Life
Exams And Then Some - A Licensure Update
Licensure
A Reflection: Planning and Un-Planning
Life
I am excited to be back and hope you are just as excited to read! I’ll be updating the website in the next few weeks and can’t wait to post Feeding the Heart on May 17th. See you then!
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